Memorial Day is here. The calendar is exactly the same as it was 22 years ago. The 29th of May is the Wednesday after Memorial Day. I know this because that is the day that I lost my dad. It was May 29th and it was a Wednesday and it was two days after Memorial Day. The anniversary of his passing is always a day of reflection. I think what might of been and how I would not be the person I am today if he would of lived past 51 years of age. I have to tell you 51 is too young to pass. I remember on that day that I was so afraid that I would forget. Afraid that I would forget him and all he was and did. Little did I know that there would be days that I wished I could forget. That missing him at times was just too much to bear. Today is one of those days.